I’m very busy, but I always make time for you.

Life moves at a fast pace these days, and “busy” has become a common word in communication between people.

However, without realizing it, they severed their feelings for each other.

I once read a quote that said, “When I say I’m busy, it means you’re not that important to me.”

Actually, to determine whether someone loves you and is worth getting to know, you can see if they have time for you.

People who don’t care about you will often use being busy as an excuse to brush you off.

Those who care about you will make time for you, no matter how busy they are.

Cherish those who are willing to spend time with you.

◆ People who don’t care about you are always busy.

A friend shared his story:

She once thought that as long as she had a house and money, she could get married.

However, when she had both a house and money, and her boyfriend proposed, she recalled their six years together but felt terrified about the future:

Her boyfriend is always very busy, so busy that he doesn’t have time to talk to her. She tries not to bother him and makes sure to schedule a time to talk in advance.

But every time a time is agreed upon, the other party often uses “being busy” as an excuse to leave it unfinished.

Once, her boyfriend surprisingly agreed to go to the movies with her, but then had something come up and couldn’t go, and even said with a straight face:

“I can’t give up halfway; I have to be responsible to others and to my work.”

She was afraid her boyfriend would think she was being dramatic or unreasonable, so she kept putting up with it.

There was another excessive act that made her very angry:

She discovered that he had downloaded a dating app on his phone.

She then questioned him: “You’re so busy all the time, yet you have time to chat on dating apps?”

Her boyfriend half-jokingly said, “Before getting married, everyone has a choice!”

He made up many excuses for himself, and the matter was thus glossed over.

In the past two years, the girl has been sick many times, but the boy has never accompanied her to the hospital because he is busy.

She recalled that the biggest gain from this relationship was not the love she received, but the development of her independence.

One friend’s reply was quite poignant: “It’s not that he’s too busy, it’s just that he doesn’t love you enough.”

Human relationships are like accounts in an emotional bank account; the depth of a relationship depends on how much you have deposited in your account.

Every time I use being busy as an excuse to brush you off, I’m actually taking away your savings.

When the withdrawal amount exceeds the deposit amount, even with material support, the inner emotional account is depleted, and the account should be closed.

A person’s heart is where their time is spent.

He’s willing to spend time on you; that’s true love.

Don’t let those who care about you feel heartbroken.

But heartfelt companionship is the cornerstone for adults to maintain their relationships.

◆ Even when you’re busy, it’s only because you’re neglecting the people who care about you.

As stated in The Art of Loving:

“If a lady tells us she loves flowers, but we find that she always forgets to water them, we won’t believe her.”

You keep saying “I love you,” but you often use “being busy” to neglect your lover. You don’t really love them.

Whether someone loves you or not is not determined by what they say, but by what they do.

In fact, loving someone doesn’t mean spending long candlelight dinners or going on trips.

Instead, let the other person know that you’ve always been there for them in the quiet flow of life!

A programmer shared his heartwarming story:

This programmer is very busy every day.

But every day at the company, he would video chat with his wife during lunch and dinner: they would eat and talk about what happened at the company that day.

They rambled on about this and that, just everyday stuff.

He said, “Sometimes when the children are home, and they call me ‘Dad,’ it warms my heart.”

If he has to work overtime at night, he will take ten minutes or so before starting to make a phone call and tell his wife to rest first.

Then, I went back to work and worked overtime.

As Mr. Yang Jiang once said:

We always strive for too many unattainable things, forgetting that true happiness in life is nothing more than the warmth of a quiet night and the fulfillment of everyday life.

In this life, you can never earn enough money, but the joyful times spent with family will pass in the blink of an eye.

You can’t change the fact that you’re busy, but you can choose to call your loved one back so they don’t worry.

Remember to spend your time on the people you love.

True happiness is simply having someone by your side who is willing to accompany you.

◆ The best kind of love: I’m busy, but I always make time for you.

The best words of love in the world are not “I love you”, but “I’m very busy, but I’m willing to make time for you”.

Time is the best gift a person can give you.

I watched a video like this:

Xiao Xin is a small business owner and a father of four.

One weekend, Xiao Xin was receiving two very important clients.

Just before he was about to leave work, he received a WeChat message from his wife: “Honey, are you coming home for dinner tonight?”

The children excitedly messaged on WeChat, “Dad, Dad, we want to eat roast chicken.”

With his career on the left and his family on the right, he was in a dilemma.

But thinking of the disappointed looks in his family’s eyes if he didn’t go back, he said to his assistant:

“Go down to the hotel and book two rooms. Mr. Chen and Mr. Li have come all this way, so arrange a private room for them. You can have dinner with them first, and then I’ll have a late-night snack with you. I have some things to take care of at home, so I have to rush back.”

After a brief conversation with the two clients, I drove home.

On his way home, he personally went to the supermarket and bought his daughter’s favorite roast chicken, his son’s favorite pizza, and his wife’s favorite fruit.

After enjoying a pleasant dinner with his family, he rushed back to have a late-night snack with his clients.

He said, “Never neglect the people you love because of work. No matter how much money you earn, it’s not as valuable as spending time with them.”

As a small business owner, being busy is inevitable, but he always makes time for his family, which is heartwarming.

In fact, a man who knows how to spend time with his family not only makes his family feel secure, but also earns the trust of his business partners.

Spending time and energy being good to your family is the essential success formula for men.

Zhang Xiaoxian once said, “Accompanying someone is the most enduring expression of love.”

You need others to accompany you, and others need your companionship as well. Companionship is an essential part of a relationship.

Because of love and companionship, life is full of warmth and little joys.

Ordinary people don’t exchange many romantic words.

But to meet someone who is willing to share a life of quiet contentment with you is a very lucky thing.

Eileen Chang once said:

If a person doesn’t have time, it’s because they don’t want to have time. If a person can’t get away, it’s because they don’t want to get away. If a person has too many excuses, it’s because they don’t care about you.

Heartbreaking, yet realistic!

People who don’t care about you are always busy;

And those who want to take you home will take a detour;

Those who want to see you will come no matter how far the road.

Someone who cares about you will always find time to reply to your messages, no matter how busy they are.

A thousand “I love you”s are not as good as one “I’m here for you”!

All romance pales in comparison to the quiet, enduring companionship.

Cherish her!